In social science, seduction is the process of deliberately enticing a person to engage in sexual behaviour. The word seduction stems from Latin and means literally "to lead astray". As a result, the term may have a positive or negative connotation. Famous seductresses from history or legend include Cleopatra and Mae West
Seducing a man doesn't necessarily mean stealing him from someone else, or convincing him to do something he shouldn't be doing. It can simply mean sealing a guy's desire for you, and can be a good way to keep a man.
Be yourself.
Men are thought to instinctively crave variety. By developing a strong sense of self, with your own distinct personality and flair, you're appealing to his desire for variety because you're so different.
Work your eye contact
Now you don’t want him to think you’re attracted to him, so don’t overdo the little staring game. Look, but always look away just as he looks at you. By doing that, he’ll never be sure if you’re even staring at him. And yet, he’d start to get more and more curious about you.
Put Him Under A Spell With Your Smell.
Pick a sensual perfume that will arouse his senses. If you can, ask suggestions from a male friend, as he knows what type of smell will attract someone like him. You may also want to try herbal aphrodisiacs like jasmine, rose and ylang ylang.
Smile for him
Men are automatically drawn towards women who seem happier and more fun to be with. A smiling, flirty woman is far more approachable than a surly, saggy woman. When you’re having a conversation with him, smile often. It’ll make you seem good natured and happy, which will draw him to you. But don’t overdo the smiling by making it obvious that you’ve got a thing for him. You’re trying to seduce him, not let him know you like him!
Play Hard to Get.
Make him feel like you really want him, but are "holding back" for one reason or another. Some guys don't like playing games so if you play hard to get a little too well it may work against you.
Keep in mind that appearance is an almost negligible aspect of seduction. Many of history's seductresses were beautiful, but many men have strayed from their relationships to be with a woman who isn't considered by most to be as attractive as their partner.
Sometimes, no matter what you do, the guy just won't like you. If he is too attached to his girlfriend / blind and can't see how great you are, move on. There are so many other people out there that will want you.
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